There is lots of problems in the Chu's family lately. Sometimes I don't understand why is people so stubborn sometimes, why is people so selfish sometimes, why is people so calculative sometimes.
My 3rd uncle got stroke 8 months back. Because of that, quarrels happen between in law's family and our family :/ I'm really on my nerves now, they are like so inconsiderate -.- They ask us to do this do that and what they do is just sit and watch :/ Always complaining, saying that it's all Chu's family responsibility to take care of my uncle. Money, energy, care, everything our problem. What about them ?
They had the money in the bank, they had the money we have given him, so what they give ? They don't want to use it, they still dare to say they are facing shortage of money.
Energy, we had tried our best, furthermore, spouses do vow before during their marriage that they will take care of each other no matter what happens right, so they should. When he isn't married yet, we got nothing to say. So now, all we can do is to give financial and all sort of support what, what you expect ? All of the 10 brothers and sisters in Chu family also have their own family what, what you expect, you think we should give up our family and go and take care of him 24 hours ? We could help, he can come over to our house but the way you talk like you are going to give up taking care of him, like you are going to forget him forever.
We tried our best by persuading him to change a doctor, go for all sorts of physiotherapy, but you all don't want. Stroke is something that cannot wait. The longer you wait, the more it couldn't be cure.we persuade him, you don't like. Now what ? You all ask us to borrow you all money, we already did.
This time we come back to Sabah, you ask us why wouldn't we stay till next year and then take care of him. WHATTT ? Why we all got so many money go travel, why we don't want to borrow him money, what? Are you frigging blind, we diddddd. And furthermore we go travel, we use our own money what, is that your problem ? We didn't borrow money from you all what.
We offer to take care of the children, you say we all want to snatch your children. You let the children to stay with their aunty and uncle where there is lots of little children there. You think they can concentrate in their studies ? They will surely help to take care of those babies right ? Energy ? We gave them ? We offer to help you all to take care of those children, you don't want.
I'm tired of all this drama. I'm really tired...
Oh yeah, if you find this blog post selfish or whatsoever, ignore it and get lost
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